People get into relationships with the expectations of having a successful relationship, and usually, one that will lead to marriage. However, that is not often the case. There are many reasons why a relationship fails, but I’m particularly interested in when it ends because a partner has pulled away.
Well, if you have been in a relationship with a Scorpio guy who suddenly pulled away, and you were probably left wondering what could have gone wrong.
This article will help you gain insights on why your Scorpio man started acting distant just when you thought you had found your match.
Top 5 Reasons Why A Scorpio Man Withdraws
He is hurt
Scorpio men are considered to have highly sensitive emotions, and they tend to get hurt easily. Having said that, your Scorpio boyfriend will normally isolate himself if he feels hurt, wounded, scorned, or overly criticized. When his feelings are hurt, or when he feels wronged, he is likely to indulge in a bitter exchange with you or choose to withdraw so that he can silently deal with his emotional outbursts.
Scorpio men are known to have a problem verbalizing their feelings. So, if you hurt your Scorpio man, he will detach himself so that he can protect himself from extense feelings of humiliation and hurt.
If you are in a situation where your Scorpio man is pulling away from you then it is imperative that you learn exactly what makes a Scorpio guy tick if you want to keep him. To be able to read a Scorpio man like an open book and get him to open up to you and share his innermost feelings with you, read my article here.
He’s not interested in a relationship with you
Scorpio men are known to be very secretive and they hardly open up about their feelings unless it is absolutely necessary. What’s more, he is likely not to share his feelings unless he completely trusts the lady in his life. So, your Scorpio guy may disengage if he is not interested in you, and he may not have the guts to have a conversation with you regarding what he thinks about the relationship, or where it is going. To be able to get him to open up completely to you, read my article on Scorpio Men Secrets here.
What’s more, Scorpio men are known to be highly selective when choosing their mates, and he may ignore you if he perceives you as someone who does not have the qualities he is looking for. To gain more insight into this, read my article on the kind of women that Scorpio men are attracted to.
He recognizes that you want more from the relationship than he does
A Scorpio guy is likely to make a choice to get out of your life or withdraw when he realizes that you want to have a deep relationship with him when he is yet to make up his mind about you.
A Scorpio man always wants to take his time to get to know a woman before he can make her his girlfriend or life partner. So, a Scorp guy will ignore you if he realizes you are pushing him to be in a relationship with you when he doesn’t feel ready. In addition, he tends to detach himself if he does not want to be trapped in a relationship he is not sure about.
So, the logical and independent Scorpio guy is likely to detach himself from the relationship without talking to you about it because he does not want to lose his independence and sense of control. If a Scorpio man suddenly withdraws, it is a suggestion that he is not ready to have a deeper relationship with you yet.
You are too needy and clingy
Scorpio men are known to become attracted to women who have the ability to be responsible for their own life. So, your Scorpio guy is likely to pull away if he perceives you as a clingy and needy woman who wants to be where he is all the time or a woman who cannot be without him.
He may withdraw if he realizes that you keep changing your plans for him, or when he realizes that you consistently try to impress him, or agree with him on just about everything he says for fear of losing him.
There are certainly many other ways in which your behavior could suffocate your Scorpio partner and make him detach himself, and it is important that you learn how to create a balance in your life in order to stop pushing him away.
Related article: What you need to do to get a Scorp back after a breakup
He senses you are being false or insincere
A Scorpio man is fiercely loyal, highly intuitive and also sometimes paranoid and insecure. So, he will not have a relationship with a woman he cannot trust. It is important to note that it takes a while to earn a Scorp’s trust, and it can take just seconds to lose it. What’s more, if a Scorpio senses you are playing games with him, he is likely to disappear from your life without warning.
A Scorpio man is likely to disengage if he senses danger because he hates feeling vulnerable. He is also not very good at compromising and he tends to sting very hard when he is betrayed. In other words, you are likely to never see a Scorpio guy again if you betray him.
It can be very frustrating when your Scorpio lover suddenly withdraws, more so when you two were starting to get really close. If your Scorpio partner has been ignoring your calls, texts, emails and taking you for granted, the best you can do is to be patient with him.
Your patience is important because it will enable him to think things over and give him the space he needs to make up his mind.