For Scorpio men, love is a high priority when it comes to relationships. A Scorpio wants to be able to feel that sense of a special connection with their partner and a deep sense of love that comes with that.
Due to his inherent fear of being hurt emotionally, a Scorpio man will need to feel a nurturing, supportive and affectionate love from his partner.
Due to his highly intuitive capacity and suspicion of new people in his life, making a Scorpio man fall in love with you is not the easiest thing to do. To get expert advice on how to make him fall in love with you easily, see my article here.
Making The Scorpio Man Fall In Love With You
For the Scorpio, an intuitive feeling is everything, so if he does not feel the love is genuine then he will pick up on it pretty quickly.
Scorpio’s are the type to take time each day to contemplate aspects of his life on a deeper level. This includes relationships, so if he is in one with you then he will be consciously and intuitively checking in with his feelings regularly to see how he feels about you. Therefore, it is imperative that you create feelings of love in him if you’re wanting to have a long-term relationship.
While this is not an easy thing to do, relationship coach, Amy North teaches women how to trigger a man’s devotion sequence through subtle words and suggestions. When this happens, Amy says he will feel emotions for you more powerful than love and want to commit to you.
You can find out about Amy’s devotion sequence method here.
What does he look for in a woman?
Scorpio men are generally intense lovers. Therefore, they will be more attracted to women who are caring, affectionate and highly sexual.
Since sex is a key characteristic of the Scorpio psyche and a primary way through which the Scorpio male connects with his partner, it is important that his woman is open-minded and enjoys frequent sex.
If his partner is also adventurous and willing to experiment with him int he bedroom then this is a huge plus point for a Scorpio and will certainly help to solidify a more long-term relationship with him.
Scorpio’s are also ego orientated so the Scorpio male hates to be criticized. This means you cannot be the type of woman that criticizes your man for each and every flaw and expect to have a lasting relationship with him. This will be a big turn off for him and he will soon get bored.
If you’ve been chasing or even dating a Scorpio man for a while then you are probably wondering what his feelings and intentions towards you are. If you want to know if he is already in love with you then see our article here.
How To Win The Heart Of Your Scorpio Man
Flattery and reassurance
The self-esteem of the typical Scorpio man can be extremely fragile if they are younger or if they have not already worked on this aspect of themselves. If so, in order for you to make this star sign fall in love, steer clear of offering too many critical remarks.
The less evolved Scorpio male may also need occasional compliments for reassurance. The more evolved Scorpio does not need this, but it is always appreciated when offered.
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Show your caring and attentive side
Scorpios greatly appreciate it when they feel another person is interested in what is important to him and also goes out of their way to do nice things for him. It doesn’t need to be some grand gesture, just the little things like noting that his sock drawer is running low if he mentions that he keeps losing his socks and then going out and buying him a few pairs will really be noted by a Scorpio man.
If he is sick, then making the effort to research whatever is going on with him and then being proactive in helping him recover will also win you big plus points.
Sex and intimacy
We briefly mentioned this above, but it is important to mention it again, just because it is so important to a Scorpio man! It’s not that they are sex-crazed maniacs, not at all. However, this strong need and desire for sex is primarily due to a combination of their high virality and profoundly deep emotions. Together, this is one of the strongest drives of the Scorpio and so they use it as a vehicle in which to connect deeply with their partner.
Due to this strong drive, Scorpio men also like sex to be passionate, intimate and exciting. Therefore, vanilla sex will just not do it for them after a while. They like a combination of deep intimacy, passion and intense connection through intercourse, while at other times they also like to indulge their fun, playful and adventurous side and explore the boundaries of being more than a little naughty between the sheets.
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Talk dirty to him
As sex is such an important part of the connection for a Scorp guy, they absolutely love a woman who is confident in expressing herself sexually, and one of the most powerful ways a woman can demonstrate this is through talking dirty. This is one of the reasons why Scorpio guys love dirty talk and make them crazy in love for the woman whispering those naughty little words to him.
If you want to discover this naughty side of him then read my article on the Scorpio male and dirty talk. In this article, I explain why he loves to hear you talk dirty and how you can do it to create a powerful connection with him. You can read my article here.
This star sign will usually take their time in opening up to their partner. For this reason and despite the mask he wears on the surface for the world to see, you need to be fully aware of the true gentleness of this man’s heart. You need to slowly gain his trust and then let him know that it’s really OK to talk about all his hopes and desires with you to the point where he can share his innermost feelings. This will usually release the tension that he is holding onto.
Never lie to or cheat on a Scorpio man, as they will not tolerate it. If you lie to him then you will have a hard job regaining his trust again, and even if you do, he probably won’t forget it if it is a significant lie.
If you cheat on him then in many circumstances it will be almost impossible to recover from. If he has gotten to the point of opening up to you completely and laid bare his soal and then his partner cheats on him then this will be like a dagger straight through his heart. If for some miracle he does forgive you and you get a second chance, he will not forget it and you will likely not regain his trust one hundred percent like before.
If you are able to commit to a Scorpio man whole-heartedly then this is the type of man that will deeply desire and worship his woman on a level that others are unable to fathom.
See also: How does he act when he likes you?
Feeling that you have his back
For the Scorpio man, it is also crucial for him to not only feel but know in his heart that his woman has his back and will back him up in absolutely all circumstances. Knowing and feeling this on a deep level comes with trust from the Scorpio guy so knowing this will also help him to trust you more deeply.
To be his ideal choice of woman for a long-term relationship, you will typically need to be viewed as the “ultimate package.” Power plays a significant role in the overall relationship and the Scorpio man will always need to feel that he is useful, valued and respected.
In addition, your man will never be content to just settle, they will have to feel satisfied completely in the choice they have made in a woman if it is to be a long-term relationship. For this reason, if a Scorpio man has chosen you then it was because they felt you are unique and mysterious enough to not only hold his attention but also bring a sense of passion and adventure to his life with a deep sense of trust.
Scorpios are deeply emotional and make most, if not all important decisions based on their emotions, especially when it comes to relationships. That’s why it’s critical to get him to fall in love with you if you want the relationship with him to be long term. The last thing you want if for him to suddenly finish things with you just because he’s not “feeling it” get together with another woman.
To learn the secrets of the male Scorpio’s mind and get him to fall deeply in love with you, discover the secrets of a Scorpio expert here.