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Signs a Scorpio Man Is Not Interested In You

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a man and a woman taking an interest in each otherKnowing if a Scorpio man is interested in you is not as easy as you might think. Scorpio’s are very private people and are usually guarded with their feelings and emotions.

Like the Scorpion with its armored shell, Scorpio also wears a protective layer of armor to shield his deep emotions and sensitive nature.

The sheer depth of emotions that a Scorpio is able to experience along with his sensitive nature is certainly a gift. However, many Scorpios can wrongly perceive these traits as a weakness until they discover themselves on a deeper level.

Therefore, it can often be a Scorpio tendency not to show their feelings and emotions to anyone they do not know and fully trust. This makes it especially hard to tell if the Scorpio man really digs you or if he is just not interested.

If you’ve got your eye on a Scorp hottie and you want him to feel the same way about you, or if you’re currently dating a Scorp, but he just doesn’t seem that into you, then I’m sure, you, like me would be interested to know there’s a stupidly simple technique you can use to subtly get a man to obsess over you.

This technique was created by relationship expert, Amy North. She explains exactly how her simple method can unlock the hidden desire in a man’s mind and make him want to be with you. You can learn the simple technique here.

How To Know If A Scorpio Man Is Not Interested

He’s extra elusive

With their mysterious nature, Scorpio’s can sometimes be elusive. However, if he seems more distant than usual then he may be avoiding you.

When you do see him, ask him unintrusive questions in a casual way. For example, asking him how his day was is definitely a better approach than asking him more personal questions about what is going on in his life.

If it seems that he is being elusive at the moment, regardless if it is about you or not, he will appreciate people who respect his privacy and don’t probe him too much.

You should be absolutely fine though to strike up a casual conversation and ask him non-invasive questions that he feels comfortable answering.

If he seems to enjoy the conversation and isn’t looking for ways to exit then he probably enjoys talking to you, which is, of course, a good sign.

By casually slipping these words into the conversation, you can by-pass his defenses, create a connection with him and spark his attraction process.

He seems like he’s not really listening

When a Scorpio man really likes a woman he will pay close attention to what she is saying and give her his full attention.

He may try to play aloof from time to time, which is his defensive shield coming up in an attempt to hide his true feelings. But if he likes her then he will frequently pay close attention to her time and again.

If however, when you are talking to him he just doesn’t seem interested or doesn’t have much to add to the conversation then he’s either severely distracted in his head by other things that are going on in his life or he’s just not into you.

He checks his phone while you’re talking

Have you ever had a conversation with someone only for them to pull out their cell phone halfway through and start checking it while you were in mid-sentence?

Kinda rude, right?!

Well if a Scorpio guy, well, any guy for that matter, he’s either waiting for a life or death phone call or he’s just not interested.

He doesn’t care about his appearance around you

Scorpio guys generally do care about their physical appearance, so if he’s really not bothered if you see him looking like he’s been sleeping under a hedge (unless this is his usual style) then he’s probably not interested in you.

See also: The top 10 signs to know if he definitely likes you

a man reading a message on his phoneHe doesn’t return your calls, texts or emails

When you message a Scorpio guy, he may play it cool from time to time and leave it an hour or two before he replies to avoid seeming desperate.

However, if he’s consistently leaving it several hours or even days before he gets back to you then he’s not all that interested in communicating with you.

If this is the case then he’s either not interested or you’re not being interesting enough for him to reply.

If you notice this is happening then check out Anna Kovach’s new guide, ‘How To Text A Scorpio Guy’.

This book is currently being offered for free by the author when you buy her new book, Scorpio Man Secrets. I reviewed it here and explain more on how you can get a free copy of the ‘How To Text A Scorpio Guy’ book.

Related article: How to know if he is interested in you

Scorpio Man stops communicating

If he stops communicating with you or there are long delays, even days or weeks before he gets back to you then it’s likely that he’s lost interest.

Guys that really like you will be thinking about you when you’re not around and keen to get back to you when you message him.

There, of course, may occasionally be things going on in his life that delay him in getting back to you. However, if this becomes frequent then he’s probably lost interest.

If you’re having trouble getting a response from a Scorpio then leave him alone for a few days and give him some space. We all need our solitude from time to time and this is particularly the case for Scorpio’s.

The next time you reach out to him should be through text, WhatsApp or some other kind of messenger so he doesn’t feel pressured. However, it is important not to come across needy, desperate or demanding or you will only push him away further.

He doesn’t initiate physical contact

Scorpio can often be shy around women they like and will not usually initiate physical contact unless she does first or he knows her very well. However, if he does seem comfortable giving you a friendly hug or playfully touching you on the shoulder then he may just see you as a friend.

If he does do these gestures but seems slightly awkward or nervous about it then he may have a secret crush on you.

If you are still not sure whether a Scorpio man is interested in you or not then you may need a deeper insight into this mysterious water sign.

What better person to learn from than Scorpio expert and astrologer, Anna Kovach? Anna has written a controversial book that allows you to gain access to all her years of research, experience, and insights into the Scorpio male as she exposes all in her book, Scorpio Man Secrets.

Anna is also giving away one-to-one question time completely free (for a limited time only) for people who purchase her eye-opening book. You can learn all about it here in my review.

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The Signs Scorpio Man Is Using You

Scorpio’s are very good at hiding their feelings so it can be tricky at first to figure out if he’s just using you. However, by looking for the right signs you’ll soon discover the truth and know if it’s time to finally walk away.

If a Scorpio guy is really into you then it will be obvious that he is invested in the relationship. He wants a monogamous commitment with someone he really cares about. He will also become more open about his feelings as the two of you grow closer.

If, however, he only seems to call you when he wants something, for example, sex, then he could just be after one thing.

Another sign he is using you is if he just seems to call you when he needs your help but is not genuine about wanting to spend time with you.

It is a painful realization to discover that someone is using you, but try not to take it personally. In most cases, it is more a reflection about their character than you as a person.

If you are seeing several signs that your Scorpio man is not really interested in you for who you are as a person, then cut him loose and move on. You deserve someone who will treat you well and respect you as a person.

NEED MORE HELP? If after reading this article you think that the Scorp you have your eye on is not interested in you, but you would like to change all that then relationship coach Amy North has a surprisingly simple method that can subtly trigger a man’s attraction process.

According to Amy, it all comes down to how you talk to him and the words you use. She explains how her system works here.

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11 comments
  1. Louise

    I do not think ANYONE will understand a scorpio guy. They blow hot and cold. Show interest 1 minute, then dont!! Give u a love next day be nasty. WTF I am with a scorpio guy now. But to be honest i feel ready to get rid and uf i do I WILL NEVEF EVER HAVE HIM BACK far to fucked up for me

    1. TheScorpio

      Hello Louise,

      Sorry to hear that, it sounds like you are too good for him and, in this case, it may be better fro you to move on. Life is too short to waste your time on people who do not treat you right. Fortunately, not all Scorpio men are like this.
      All the best.

  2. Chime

    I’m a female Scorpio (11-7), he’s a (10-27) scorp. I thought he liked me for a solid month. It was fun while it lasted, but I guess it’s not meant to be. Too hot and cold for me. He’s a Venus Scorpio also and I’m Venus Sag. I heard Venus Scorpios were intense, posessive and obsessive in love. They only truly share themselves physically with ones they truly want something MORE from. He seems indifferent towards me. I’m not good at waiting, wishing and hoping someone is interested. Either they are and I stay or they aren’t (or in his case, they show me next to nothing) and I leave. It’s too bad. I really like him and wanted to get to know him, but I can’t do anything if my feelings aren’t reciprocated. It sucks, but, oh well. Plenty of fish. Good luck to all you Scorpio lovers, I love me, but I hope I’m not as difficult to get to know or love as my male counterparts.

    1. TheScorpio

      Hey Chime,

      Oh, that’s too bad, but it sounds like you’re doing the right thing if he is not reciprocating your feelings. It sounds like you have good self-esteem. You will certainly meet someone worthy of you in that case. Best wishes xx

  3. Gracious

    So want to be done with him but I broke up after I found out he won’t stop cheating. Am cancer and it’s not easy to get over him. I really wish he could realize his mistakes and change. It’s not easy at all especially when I remember tht he may not and we may just be done with each other for life.

    1. TheScorpio

      Hi Gracious, sorry to hear that, that sounds tough. Yes, I know what you mean, I have a Cancerian friend and she’s particularly emotional. She says it’s her blessing and her curse as she feels emotions so strongly.
      If he’s been cheating on you then it’s probably wise to let him go and move on. You deserve much better. Believe in yourself and you will find a good man when the time is right for you.
      Wishing you all the best, Charlene

  4. Bash

    The most Busll$h!+ Sign of all!!! They always play around with feelings of others. No balls to show off what they feel. They always run…..

    1. TheScorpio

      Hey Bash, thanks for commenting, sounds like you’ve been having a hard time with a Scorpio man! Fortunately, I can tell you from experience that they’re not all like that. If the guy you’ve been dating has not been treating you right and he doesn’t want to change his behaviour then it’s best to walk away. You deserve to be with someone who treats you write, respects you and honours you as the goddess you are. Best wishes

  5. Bash

    First and last time that I will fall will that Sign, thats not really an Ideal Zodiac to spend your life with. I really hate this Sign, even making friends with this sign is really shit! they are very Manipulative and very Dominant.

    1. TheScorpio

      Hey Bash, sounds like you’ve been having a hard time with a bad guy. Fortunately, not all Scorpio’s are the same, not by a long shot. While there is certainly a “bad type” of Scorpio, there are also other Scorpio’s who are very sensitive, caring and make great therapists and teachers. It sounds like you met a bad one, there are actually bad types of any sign, but yes, the “bad Scorpio” can be particularly bad. However, the “good Scorpio” is very loyal, honourable, sensitive and a great ally. Here’s an interesting video you might like to watch about the different types of Scorpio https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LM4wkr-OUYY

      Best wishes

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