The Scorpio man in bed is said to be passionate, energetic and intense.
If you’re reading this then you’re probably already aware that the Scorpio is regarded as the most sexual and passionate sign of the zodiac.
The general perception is that Scorpio men are obsessed with sex, they just can’t get enough.
Although this may be true on some levels, This doesn’t mean that he’ll have sex with just anyone at the drop of a hat. In fact, quite the opposite.
Scorpio prefers to be ina relationship. He wants a partner who can match him sexually or, at least, be willing and open enough to explore new heights of passion with him.
When it comes to sex, Scorpio doesn’t like routine. Although he will have his favorites when it comes to foreplay and sex, he likes to mix things up and keep it interesting.
A woman who can stimulate his sexual side is especially appealing to him. He will find her far more attractive for it. If she can stimulate his mind, his sexual fantasies, and desires and bring them to the surface then he will associate her with them.
Once he places you at the center of his sexual fantasies he can have a strong, almost obsessive interest in you for the long-term.
Relationship expert, Felicity Keith shows women exactly how to do this here.
Scorpio’s have a deep and intuitive connection with sex, so much so that they are instinctive masters of the art, which makes them incredible lovers.
For Scorpio men, whether they are consciously aware of it or not, sex is a way for them to connect with their partner at the deepest level.
In this way, he can create intense sexual experiences of passion, emotion, and pleasure and express himself through sex.
In this article, I will expose the truths behind the Scorpio man in bed.
What Scorpio Men Like In Bed
Scorpios love oral sex. For him, it is an intensely pleasurable and highly erotic experience.
Of course, he loves to receive it, but he also enjoys giving it just as much. If you haven’t been with a Scorp before then you’ll be surprised at just how damn good he is at this part of sex. In return, he expects the same from his lover.
Oral sex is deeply intimate and is one of his favorite parts of foreplay. It’s a must-have for him.
If you’re a rockstar at this part, not only will he find you more attractive, but falling in love with you will be almost guaranteed.
If, however, you don’t have much experience in the area or your oral game is just average then it can put a dampener on your intimacy with a Scorp. You then may then have to work pretty hard in order to keep him attracted to you for the long-term.
Interestingly, most women think they’re good at giving head. However, when surveyed, many guys say that as much as 9 out of 10 blow jobs they receive are average or worse. Most guys don’t say anything because let’s face it, he’s just happy you’re doing it in the first place, and he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings.
As simple as it seems, there are actually a few key tricks you can use to make this part of your game absolutely amazing.
According to Jack, a male sex instructor, if you can give head the way he really wants you to then he can even start to fall in love with you. Jack explains the key tricks that drive men wild here.
For most men born under this sign, sex is a completely immersive experience of body, mind, and emotions. Therefore, talking dirty to a Scorp guy is one of the most erotic things you can do for him. This is because it communicates directly to the sexual and desire-driven parts of his brain.
As sex is so important to a Scorp, not only is dirty talk an excellent way to quickly get his pulse racing and hot for you, it also helps to deepen the intimacy and connection you have with him.
Telling him what you want him to do to you, what you want to do to him and everything in between will get his imagination revving into overdrive.
The trick is to leave a little to his imagination, but at the same time being dirty enough to get him excited.
Unfortunately, most women make one of two huge mistakes when it comes to dirty talk.
- They only say things to their man that they themselves as women would like to here
- They say things that they think he wants to hear instead of discovering what guys actually respond to
The fact is, men and women both think very differently when it comes to sex.
The words and phrases and even tone of voice that turn a woman on are, for the most part, not the same that will turn on a guy.
However, most guys don’t say anything to their lady when she is doing it wrong but just go with it.
So, why in the hell wouldn’t he say anything if he doesn’t like it?
There are two reasons; One, he is close to getting laid and does not want to distract you. Two, he doesn’t want to upset you.
As simple as it can be, dirty talk is actually a fine art of understanding the sexual psychology of your partner. This also includes knowing exactly how to use your voice tone and tempo so you can deliver your messages directly to the pleasure centers in his brain.
If you do can it right you will have your man literally eating out of the palm of your hand and viewing you as the only woman he wants to be intimate with. Do it wrong, however, and you run the risk of turning him off or worse yet, losing interest in you.
Fortunately, there are sex experts out there like Felicity Keith who teaches women exactly what to say to a guy and how to say it to get him insatiably ravenous for you.
Felicity also teaches women how to step into their feminine energy and own their sexual power with confidence. Felicity explains how she does it here.
The Sexual Experience For Scorpio Men
During pretty much every sexual act, Scorpio’s immerse themselves fully and completely and indulge all their senses into every experience.
Sex is a vehicle in which he is brought strongly and completely into the present moment. When this happens it is often to the point where the rest of the world just seems to disappear and it just feels like it’s you and him intertwined in an energetic embrace of and passion and lust.
Scorpio men have a deep longing to both be desired by their partner and to also have a woman who can be the total object of his desire, with whom he can indulge his deepest, darkest fantasies.
On a subconscious level, this is a way for the Scorpio to connect and gives him the feeling of being understood and accepted at his core.
Passion, Lust & Eroticism
Due to his intense, sexual nature, he can be highly adventurous when it comes to sex and are always looking to push the limits of pleasure and desire. They are highly passionate and sex with them can often be one of the most intense and erotic experiences of a woman’s life.
The Scorpio sign is deeply connected and in tune with their intense emotions. As such, they want to have a partner that they can connect with and express these depths through sex.
Sometimes he will make love passionately, intensely expressing his emotions to his partner through his body movements and energy. Other times, he’ll want to indulge his highly erotic side to both give and receive lustful gratification.
More: Want to discover his sexual fantasies and deepest desires? See my article, here.
See also: Ways you can tell if he is into you
He has a kinky side
Since Scorpio have a strong sexual appetite and does not like things to be samey or get boring, he can often develop a kinky side, particularly as he matures.
Most Scorpios will be respectful of their woman and will not expect her to indulge in anything she doesn’t feel comfortable with. However, if you’re up for a bit of kink then he’ll suddenly find you a lot more attractive.
If you’ve got a kinky side too but you’re not sure if he will like it, don’t worry. When it comes to this zodiac sign, he is highly likely to become very turned on if he discovers you’re kinky too.
Kinky doesn’t only mean BDSM so don’t worry if that’s not your bag, it may not be his either. There are many different types of kink a person may be into and can as simple dressing up and role-playing, which most couples find can be fun sex games!
Take time to discover what he’s into and be open-minded to exploring those ideas with him if they are safe and also have some appeal for you too.
He loves foreplay
Scorpio men are certainly down with foreplay. For them, it is a way to both warm them up for the main course and also teases their partner into heights of ecstasy where they can take it no longer.
Like any other sexual act, Scorp males take great pride in being exceptional at what they do.
When it comes to foreplay, they certainly aren’t shy and for them, it’s often, the more naughty and erotic the better!
Most Scorp’s intuitively know exactly what to do to pleasure a woman and revel in taking the time to explore their partner’s body and sexuality. They do this so they can learn exactly what their partner likes and what gives them the most pleasure.
Scorp guys have an extensive and intuitive knowledge of female anatomy and often have a highly developed and honed sense of touch. They use these skills to both give pleasure to their partner and to receive information from their lover as they take note of every movement and response to the touches they give.
Scorpio men also have a dynamic, erotic and somewhat kinky imagination, which they use to their advantage.
He will store all this in the memory banks and build up a detailed sexual profile of his lover.
This trait may come from a deep need to feel loved, wanted and desired. They also greatly enjoy the ego boost of knowing that he is the best his partner has ever had.
Another reason for wanting to bring his partner to such heights of pleasure is so he can also ride the waves of passion to heighten his own states of intense excitement and pleasure.
Scorpio men also love the idea that women find them sexually attractive and fantasize about him behind closed doors.
HOT TIP: If you’re dating a Scorp then telling him that you have fantasized about him sexually will likely be a big turn-on for him.
Besides this, knowing exactly how to talk to him to turn him on and get him hot for you is a must-have skill if you want to be the best lover your Scorpio man has ever had. To discover exactly how to do this, watch this short video here.
The Sexual Act
For Scorp guys, sex is often energetic, passionate, intense and often erotic. These guys seem to have an insatiable appetite for carnal play, which they try to satisfy when they can.
Even though most of the traits of this zodiac sign are distinctive, there will be some differences between different Scorpio men. Some will be more passionate and sensitive in their love-making, while others will be intense and energetic.
However, with any Scorpio guy, there will be an immersion of his senses into each and every experience, enjoyment of teasing his partner to push them closer to the edge, and a profound connection that needs to be felt to be believed.
Often, he will like to be in control and dominate his partner. This can be due to his controlling nature, however, he is not controlling in the way that he wants to assert his will over his partner, no. But rather, controlling in a way that he wants to master his ability to give and receive pleasure with his lover.
All this being said, he will also be willing to mix it up and allow his partner to dominate him once in a while if he fully trusts her, due to his adventurous side and curious nature.
Their highly energetic nature means that they are often still going after their partner has climaxed. For the younger Scorpio’s who have not yet learned such control, they often have sexual energy in abundance and are often able to go again and again during the same night.
Desire, passion, and eroticism are extremely appealing to him. This coupled with his adventurous spirit means that he is also more than partial to experimentation. He will also like to try new positions, places to have sex and also use toys for both his partners and his own pleasure.
See also: The signs that say he’s in love with you
Scorpio Men’s Turn On’s
There are quite a few things that turn on a Scorpio man. Some of the biggest include;
- Having a sense of mystery about you
- Letting him know you are interested in him
- Being good at dirty talk
- Having a unique and different style from most other women
- Being open and honest
- Having a passion for life
- Adventurous and exciting sex
Scorpio Men’s Turn Off’s
Scorpio guy also has some key turn off’s that you should also be aware of if you’re wanting to date one. Some of the biggest are;
- Being manipulating
- Being controlling
- A stagnant relationship
- Being possessive of him
- Being too introverted
- Losing interest in sex or acting too prudery
Scorpio men are intensely passionate and make fantastic lovers. They know how to distinguish between feelings of love and the simple act of sex, so if it is just a casual encounter you will have to pull something really special out of the bag in order to change the encounter into a long-term affair.
Being a master of dirty talk is an excellent way to make him feel like you are the best sex he’s ever had. You can learn exactly how to turn him on with your words here.
Understanding his nature and exactly how he perceives sex will greatly enhance your passionate encounters with him.
It is also important to understand his turn on’s and turn off’s if you’re wanting to make a lasting impression on him and make him yours.
For many women, all of this may seem rather intimidating. If you’re not wanting to embarrass yourself in front of him while you’re being intimate and don’t want to run the risk of him thinking you’re boring in bed or just not able to live up to his standard of love-making then you may want to read Scorpio Man Sextrology.
This is a detailed book of exactly what a woman needs to know to be the kind of woman that he will find exceptionally attractive and be able to turn him on like crazy. You can discover more about Scorpio Man Sextrology here.