If you’re in a relationship with a Scorpio fella or if you’re working on seducing one then you probably already know that Scorpio men absolutely love dirty talk.
Being able to talk dirty to your Scorp partner in a way that actually turns him on is one of the most effective things you can do to make him feel more attracted.
When you talk dirty to him it stimulates the pleasure centers in his brain, making him associate you with pleasure and thus, making him more attracted to you and even crave to be around you.
Surveys have shown that women who know how to use the exact words and phrases that turn guys on are more likely to keep their man for the long-term and become the only one that he really has a desire for. As such, these women are far less likely to be cheated on by their partners.
The beauty of dirty talk is that you don’t even have to wait to be in the bedroom to start doing it.
Subtly whispering a few naughty phrases in his ear when you’re both out in a cafe or at a restaurant can be a big turn on and get his mind racing with all kinds of thoughts about you.
You can even send him a few dirty text messages when he’s not around to get him to want to see you asap!
Building sexual tension in this way helps to keep your relationship fun, fresh and exciting. Scorpio men need quite a bit of sexual stimulation and variety. Dirty talk is an excellent way to help meet his highly sexual needs.
If you’re already in a relationship with a Scorp but things have gotten a little stale then I’m sure you don’t need me to tell you that you’re gonna need to spice things up if you want to keep him attracted to you.
Dirty talk is a great way to start re-igniting those flames of passion.
With that in mind, it is important that you learn how to talk dirty to your Scorpio guy and make it a part of your romantic relationship.
So, without further ado, here are my top tips for talking dirty to a Scorpio man.
Tips for Talking Dirty To a Scorpio Man Like A Pro
Find out what he likes
The first step is understanding what kind of bedroom talk turns him on. If you do not already know, then understanding the Scorpio male sextrology will give you key insights into the sexual mind of the Scorp. I wrote about it here.
While Scorpio sextrology will give you great insights into how he views sex, what turns him on and how you can make him even more attracted to you, each Scorpio man will be slightly different. So, have a conversation about his fantasies, what turns him on and what he especially likes when it comes to sex. Scorpio guys are very passionate about sex so talking about it should not be a problem for him.
Once you’ve got the inside info on his fantasies you’ll then be able to use naughty words and phrases that will powerfully turn on those pleasure centers in his brain and make him incredibly hot for you.
Related article: 8 ways to keep a Scorp man happy in the bedroom
Take it slow
Whispering naughty words to your Scorpio lover for the first time can cause some anxiety and nervousness if you’re not used to talking this way to your lover.
Start out with a few easier phrases to get you used to talking dirty and to condition him to hear it from you.
Next time you’re out in a public place, whispering a few simple phrases in his ear like, “you make me so hot, I want you right now…” or “what color panties do you think I’m wearing right now..?” are great ways to introduce dirty talk.
Before long, your Scorp man will start playing back with you and whispering naughty little phrases in your ear too.
As I briefly mentioned earlier, sharing fantasies is a good way of stimulating his mind and getting you both in the mood for sex. You can use this tactic any time and it does not have to be in the bedroom.
For instance, when you are having a non-romantic conversation, you can interrupt him by telling him what you will do to him or what you would like him to do to you.
Asking him to share his sexual fantasies and desires would also be a good way of taking his arousal a notch higher.
See also: The things that turn a Scorp on sexually
Send him sexy text messages
Sending dirty messages to your Scorpio lover through text is likely to leave him wanting more of you. What’s more, you never have to worry about saying something wrong to him because you have the time to think about the kind of message you want to send to him.
Nonetheless, to write him a mind-blowing sext, you just need to know the kind of vocabulary he loves to hear while in between the sheets. You can spice up the sexting with some suggestive photos to keep his anticipation high.
If you want a step-by-step guide on exactly how and what to say when sexting your man, Felicity Keith gives away a free book called The Good Girl’s Guide To Texting Dirty with her Language of Desire course. You can find out more about it here.
Give him a detailed description
Scorpio men love sex and they can be very lustful. So, as you tell him what you are going to do to him, you need to make him salivate for you and look forward to getting sexual with you. In other words, you need to tell it like it is.
For instance, if you are telling him how you are going to take off his boxers and give him oral sex, you need to tell it to him in a way that he will actually start picturing it in his head. If you want to know exactly how to do this so you actually make him hot for you and don’t risk turning him off then Felicity Keith shows you exactly how here.
Scorpio men like compliments and you will certainly boost the mood of your Scorpio guy if you give him compliments during sex and foreplay.
Some examples of compliments that Scorpio guys like to hear when in bed include:
- “The thought of your cock inside me makes me so wet and horny for you”
- “I love the way you rub your cock against my clit”
Besides how he’s making you feel, complimenting him on how attractive you find his body is also a great ego massage for him.
The bottom line when complimenting the qualities of your Scorpio man is to be genuine because Scorps hate lies, and you do not want to bruise his ego.
Dirty talk is a valuable tool that you can use with your Scorpio lover in bed and also in a variety of other contexts. To use it effectively, you need to understand what makes your Scorpio partner tick sexually.
Being able to turn him on with dirty talk just needs a little confidence that comes with practice. Once you see how positively he responds to your words you’ll soon find your confidence with it and feel empowered in our sexual energy.
If you want to get a step-by-step guide of exactly what to say, how to say it and in a way that will actually make him crave to be with you, and only you then check out the Language of Desire by Felicity Keith.