His mind is never too far away from sex, which is why pillow talk, also known as dirty talk works so well on him.
However, you don’t need to be in the bedroom to use dirty talk.
You can use more subtle techniques if you’re just getting to know him or you can really ramp up the heat and send his pulse racing if you’re ready to take things further.
Scorpios are known to be the most sexual of all the zodiac signs. With the right words, tonality and body language you can easily spark his attraction and stimulate his process for finding you highly sexually desirable no matter what stage you’re at in your relationship.
Studies have shown that more than 80% of our communication is non-verbal. This means the way you say it along with your body language and attitude makes a huge difference in how sexy he will perceive you.
Research has also shown that couples who are able to communicate sexually with one another experience a deeper sense of connection which lays the groundwork for a solid relationship.
However, the words you use and the way you use them matters…
Relationship expert, Felicity Keith teaches women exactly how to step into their power and turn men on confidently using dirty talk without compromising her self-respect. She explains how she does it here.
In the rest of this article, I will cover my top tips for talking dirty to a Scorpio man.
Tips for Talking Dirty To a Scorpio Man Like A Pro
Find out what he likes
The first step is understanding what kind of bedroom talk turns him on. If you do not already know, then understanding the Scorpio male Sextrology will give you key insights into the sexual mind of the Scorp. I wrote about it here.
While Scorpio Sextrology will give you great insights into how he views sex, what turns him on and how you can make him even more attracted to you, each Scorpio man will be slightly different.
So, have a conversation about his fantasies, what turns him on and what he especially likes when it comes to sex. Scorpio guys are very passionate about sex so talking about it should not be a problem for him.
Once you’ve got the inside info on his fantasies you’ll then be able to use naughty words and phrases that will powerfully turn on those pleasure centers in his brain and make him incredibly hot for you.
Related article: 8 ways to keep a Scorp man happy in the bedroom
Take it slow
Whispering naughty words to your Scorpio lover for the first time can cause some anxiety and nervousness if you’re not used to talking this way to your lover.
Start out with a few easier phrases to get you used to talking dirty and to condition him to hear it from you.
Next time you’re out in a public place, whispering a few simple phrases in his ear like, “you make me so hot, I want you right now…” or “what color panties do you think I’m wearing right now..?” are great ways to introduce dirty talk.
Before long, your Scorp man will start playing back with you and whispering naughty little phrases in your ear too.
As I briefly mentioned earlier, sharing fantasies is a good way of stimulating his mind and getting you both in the mood for sex. You can use this tactic any time and it does not have to be in the bedroom.
For instance, when you are having a non-romantic conversation, you can interrupt him by telling him what you will do to him or what you would like him to do to you.
Asking him to share his sexual fantasies and desires would also be a good way of taking his arousal a notch higher.
See also: The things that turn a Scorp on sexually
Send him sexy text messages
Sending dirty messages to your Scorpio lover through text is likely to leave him wanting more of you. What’s more, you never have to worry about saying something wrong to him because you have the time to think about the kind of message you want to send to him.
Nonetheless, to write him a mind-blowing sext, you just need to know the kind of vocabulary he loves to hear while in between the sheets. You can spice up the sexting with some suggestive photos to keep his anticipation high.
If you want a step-by-step guide on exactly how and what to say when sexting your man, Felicity Keith gives away a free book called The Good Girl’s Guide To Texting Dirty with her Language of Desire course. You can find out more about it here.
Give him a detailed description
Scorpio men love sex and they can be very lustful. So, as you tell him what you are going to do to him, you need to make him salivate for you and look forward to getting sexual with you. In other words, you need to tell it like it is.
For instance, if you are telling him how you are going to take off his boxers and give him oral sex, you need to tell it to him in a way that he will actually start picturing it in his head. If you want to know exactly how to do this so you actually make him hot for you and don’t risk turning him off then Felicity Keith shows you exactly how here.
Scorpio men like compliments and you will certainly boost the mood of your Scorpio guy if you give him compliments during sex and foreplay.
Some examples of compliments that Scorpio guys like to hear when in bed include:
- “The thought of your cock inside me makes me so wet and horny for you”
- “I love the way you rub your cock against my clit”
Besides how he’s making you feel, complimenting him on how attractive you find his body is also a great ego massage for him.
The bottom line when complimenting the qualities of your Scorpio man is to be genuine because Scorps hate lies, and you do not want to bruise his ego.
Dirty talk is a valuable tool that you can use with your Scorpio lover in bed and also in a variety of other contexts. To use it effectively, you need to understand what makes your Scorpio partner tick sexually.
Being able to turn him on with dirty talk just needs a little confidence that comes with practice. Once you see how positively he responds to your words you’ll soon find your confidence with it and feel empowered in our sexual energy.
If you want to get a step-by-step guide of exactly what to say, how to say it and in a way that will actually make him crave to be with you, and only you then check out the Language of Desire by Felicity Keith.