If you’ve met a hot Scorpio guy and now you’re trying to seduce him, then texting him can be a great way to go, if you do it right.
Seducing a guy through text is fun and can stir up all those excited “butterfly feelings” in your tummy each time you send him a message.
Getting a cheeky reply from him in return can make you feel giddy with delight!
However, I’m sure you, like me, know all too well how easy it is to misinterpret a text or give someone the wrong impression with your messages.
When it happens it can be fatal for a budding relationship.
Fortunately, a well-known relationship expert, Amy North shows women how to avoid these all too easy to make mistakes, but instead, send him messages that trigger the attraction process in his mind. Amy explains how to do it here.
In this article, I will also share my nine top tips for seducing a Scorpio man through text message to make him want you.
9 Tips For Seducing a Scorpio Man With Text
Spark his curiosity
Scorpio men love a little mystery. So, if you want to entice your Scorpio crush, it is important that you avoid revealing too much about yourself too soon.
Regardless of how fast you want to win him over, failing to create a little intrigue may cause him to get bored.
Send him text messages that leave a little to his imagination and get him wondering about you. Not only will this make you appear more interesting, but it also has the effect of causing him to think about you when you’re not around.
The more he thinks about you, the more he will like you. Once he realizes he is thinking about you more and more, the attraction process kicks in.
Using a little ambiguity in your messages is a great way to get him to wonder about you. For example, if your message has a double meaning where, on the one hand, it could be perceived as totally innocent, while on the other hand, he may wonder if you have the hots for him then regardless, he will start to think of you in a more intimate way.
Tease him, stay mysterious and make him wonder what kind of a woman you really are so he has a mystery to uncover.
Scorpio men respect and look for honesty and truthfulness in a partner. Therefore, your Scorpio crush wants you to be honest about who you are. He wants you to be unique and not pretend to be a person you are not.
With that in mind, it is important to be authentic when trying to win over a Scorpio man via text.
Just be relaxed and comfortable with him when you’re texting. Be honest in what you say about yourself and your life.
Scorpio’s are great at sniffing out a lie so if you lie to try to impress him then sooner or later he’ll figure it out and he won’t be impressed.
Patience is a virtue when dealing with a Scorpio man.
If you want to make a Scorpio guy attracted to you, you must avoid the temptation of double texting. If he hasn’t replied to your first message then just leave it a while and give him a chance to respond when he is ready.
Sending one message after another can make you appear desperate and clingy. This can make your Scorpio fella pull back. It is important to remember that Scorpio men like doing the chasing.
So, patience is a must-have virtue if you want to show your Scorpio guy that you have a life to lead and other things to do besides sitting around waiting for him to reply to you.
If you have made this critical mistake then follow the advice in this video from relationship expert Amy North.
Show him your confident side
Scorpio men love to take the lead. However, it is definitely okay to show your Scorp crush your confident side. When it comes to texting, you can do this by occasionally being direct and flirtatious, then pulling back a little to make him reach for more.
You can also demonstrate your confidence by calling him on his bullshit if he is giving you any. However, always to it in a fun and playful way. He’ll respect you for it.
Being confident and suggestive with your text messages will make him wonder (and make him hope) that you might also be confident in the bedroom, too. Scorp guys absolutely love this.
See also: What Scorpio men like in bed
If you’re flirting on this level then you do not need to give him every detail of what you are going to do to him. On the contrary, in the early stages of text flirting it is better to be a little vague and suggestible, rather than direct.
By sending him messages that will make him wonder if your text has a naughty connotation or is actually just an innocent message will get his mind racing and thinking sexy thoughts of you.
If, on the other hand, you’re already in a relationship with him then you can absolutely be more direct.
If and when the texting escalates to a more overt nature and you’re both feeling comfortable with it then you can get a bit more explicit, like these examples here.
Send him your sexy and classy photo
Scorpio men are very visual beings. So, if you want to charm him over text, sending him a picture of you in a pretty or sexy dress and asking his opinion about it will certainly get him thinking about you.
In addition, you may want to show him your curves, a little cleavage and wear some heels, or stockings. He wants to see that you are a classy woman who has sex appeal.
If you’re not already in a relationship with him then it is advisable not to show too much skin or send him pictures that will make him think you’re a slut. This might cause him to lose respect for you and therefore, only want to see you for one thing.
Related article: What you need to know to seduce a Scorpio guy on the phone
Stimulate his mind
Scorpio men are usually very smart guys and so, they prefer to date intelligent women.
When seducing him through texting, it is important that you stimulate his intellect as well as his imagination.
Find out about the thing he’s into such as his desires and aspirations. Ask him deeper questions about those topics.
Showing an interest in his passions will get you to stand out above most of the other girls who don’t think to ask him such deep questions.
Play hard to get
This tactic works wonders with a Scorpio fella as they love the chase. For example, you do not have to respond to every text he sends you if his text does not need a response.
If his text is not asking you a question then does it necessarily need an answer? Sometimes a simple emoji can speak a thousand words.
It is important that you let your Scorpio crush experience the thrill of chasing you. However, it is also necessary he realizes that with a little persistence in chasing you, it is a game he can win. If not, he will likely get bored and lose interest.
See also: How you can get your Scorpio man back
Everyone loves receiving compliments and so do Scorp’s. So, if you are looking to win the heart of a Scorpio male, noticing how good he looks and how well he’s dressed would go a long way.
However, sending him fake compliments to make him feel good is a huge turn-off if they’re not sincere.
Be genuine or he’ll likely see through it.
Scorpio men are very picky and stubborn so seducing him requires patience and confidence.
However, it is very important that you don’t text him anything that will make you sound like a dork. Although Scorpio guys enjoy some playful text flirting, if you come across the wrong way then you could turn him off completely.
Relationship expert Amy North teaches a really effective texting method that sparks feelings of love, desire and attraction in guys by sending a few simple messages. If you want to make sure you always say the right thing when you text him and trigger his attraction process then you can get the exact text messages Amy uses here.