Every human being has a strong desire to be nurtured, respected, admired and loved, and a Scorpio man is no exception. If you are in a relationship with a Scorpio man, it is important to note that showing him love, respect and compassion can lead to a happy and fulfilling relationship for both of you.
We tend to have different ways in which we want to be shown love based on our zodiac sign. So, it is important that you get to understand what makes your Scorpio man tick, or in other words, what his idea about love is. To find out exactly how a Scorpio man thinks and feels in a relationship and what he is wanting, almost like you are reading his mind, see my article here.
If you are in a relationship with a Scorpio man and you would want him to know that you love him without using the four-letter “L” word, this article is for you. Please keep reading.
Tips on How to Show Love to a Scorpio Man
Scorpio guys are caring, hardworking and protective. So, it is worth showing your Scorpio guy that you appreciate his kindness and hard work. Appreciation and respect are important to most men, and your Scorpio guy is not an exception.
Praising him and showing him gratitude both physically and emotionally is critical. However, always remember to be truthful because your Scorpio man will certainly be able to sense a lie from far. What’s more, showing your Scorpio man that you appreciate his efforts will encourage him to work even harder in your relationship and to continue being a good lover.
Related article: Top signs that a Scorp is really in love with you
Scorpio men are considered to be very loyal, and they rarely cheat on their women. What’s more, they can be very jealous and obsessive, and the worst thing you could do is to give your Scorpio man a reason to think that you’re cheating on him.
So, if you really want to have a happy and fulfilling relationship with your Scorpio partner, it is important that you show him that you do not have any love interests outside your relationship. In other words, you should avoid flirting with other men or indulging in behaviors that will make him suspicious of you having eyes for other men.
Related article: Making a Scorp fall in love with you
Allow him to be in charge
One of the greatest needs of a Scorp guy is the need to take control of things. So, if you want your Scorpio man to feel the love you have for him, it is important that you let him be in charge, or at least, feel like he is in charge. For instance, where decisions need to be made, it is important that you let him have the final say or feel like the idea or decision is his. However, it is important that you understand that he will always solicit for your advice as much as he wants to be in control as he will also have a deep need to make sure that you are happy with the decision.
Keep your sex life interesting
Scorpio men love sex as it is a way that he is able to connect physically and emotionally with his partner and express himself. He also likes variety in his sex life so mixing it up with a few new positions, dressing up and maybe even some toys will certainly excite him.
Taking the initiative and initiating sex with him will also go down very well and to his mind, the unspoken message will be that you desire him, you find him attractive and you want him.
To know exactly what a Scorpio man is thinking when it comes to sex and exactly what you need to do to please him like no other woman, read my article on Scorpio sextrology here.
Be part of things he finds fun
It is possible that you and your Scorpio boyfriend have similar interests, but there will likely also be things he loves doing that you don’t. So, it is important that you show a willingness to do the things he loves from time to time even if they do not spark your interest.
It important to always remember that a Scorpio male wants an adventurous woman, and he will certainly love you more for taking your time to have fun with him. What’s more, getting to find out why he loves certain things is also very important. Your actions will go a long way in showing him that you love him.
Listen to him
Scorpio men rarely talk about their feelings. So, if you want your Scorpio guy to always have an interest in you, be an attentive listener whenever he opens up.
It is important that you listen to every small detail that he shares with you. What’s more, your ability to remember those details at a later date will certainly impress him. So, it is important to show your man that you are listening to him by using body language such as nodding your head, maintaining eye contact, and being present with him.
Your ability to have a conversation with him even when the topic does not seem very interesting to you will certainly make him develop a strong connection with you.
Astrologer, Anna Kovach talks about connecting with a Scorpio man through conversation in her book, Scorpio Man Secrets. In the book, she shares exactly what a Scorpio man in yearning for deep down inside, his deepest, darkest fantasies and desires, and the emotional triggers that get him to open up and connect to a woman. You can read my review of her book here.
Do not criticize him
Scorpio men are known to be poor at handling criticism. However, they are always open to feedback, but the manner in which you give feedback to your Scorpio partner really matters.
So, if you want him to always have eyes for you, it is important that you avoid attacking him or blaming him whenever you are giving him feedback. In other words, you need to see beyond his imperfections and focus on his good qualities.
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Wear an outfit that he loves
Scorpio men are known to be visual beings, and he tends to respond to what he sees more so from a woman that he is attracted to. So, it is important that you wear something that not only makes you look good but also something that shows him you are making an effort to look awesome for him.
For instance, wearing a black or red dress that brings out your best physical features and will often do the trick. What’s more, do not forget to always wear high heels because they help to accentuate your looks.
See also: Clothes that Scorpio’s find attractive
The list above on how to show love to a Scorpio man is not all-inclusive, but the tips that I have discussed will certainly improve your chances of having a happy and fulfilling relationship with your Scorp fella.
To discover exactly what a Scorpio man wants in love, in a relationship and between the sheets, read my article here.