Because of this, he views sex as the ultimate way to connect more deeply with his partner.
Knowing how to keep a Scorpio man happy in bed will keep your relationship passionate and exciting.
Scorpio men usually have intense passion and sexual energy. They can be amazing lovers.
While an emotional connection is important to a Scorpio man, when it comes to sex and pleasure most Scorps will have sexual fantasies and maybe even one or two kinks that they yearn to fulfill.
For him, vanilla sex will not hold his attention for long. Although he does enjoy those times too if that’s all that is on the menu he will get bored and lose interest before long.
He wants a woman who is open-minded and strong enough in her own sexual power to explore new and sometimes even taboo ways of experiencing pleasure with him. In return, he will go to great lengths to please and satisfy his partner and open up to new levels of emotional connection.
Having playful energy and flirting with your lover both in and out of the bed will stimulate his desire for you and enhance how sexually attractive he finds you.
That’s why pillow talk works so well with a Scorpio.
When you use the right words with the right tonality, attitude and a little confidence, the effects on a guy can be dynamite. Relationship expert, Felicity Keith shows how to do it here.
8 Tips On How To Keep A Scorpio Man Happy In Bed
Below are ways to make your Scorpio guy feel amazing while in between the sheets with you:
Sensual stroking in the bedroom
Scorpio men love foreplay. To put your Scorp in the mood, it is important that you engage him in lots of pre-intercourse fun.
Stroking, caressing and seductively teasing him with you’re touch is a great way to start to get him turned on.
Alternating between lightly stroking him and firmly (but still gently) biting and nibbling parts of his body can start to drive him wild.
This is especially effective when you kiss his neck and up behind his ear and can send feelings of pleasure shooting all through him.
His genitals are his main erogenous zone, so paying them a good amount of attention during foreplay will definitely be appreciated and get him excited for you.
Stroking and caressing him in just the right way is important to get his pulse racing. If you’re too rough then it can be painful and not so pleasurable for him. If you’re too gentle then it may turn him off so.
Scorp’s love all kinds of foreplay, but what he especially loves is oral sex. A woman who is exceptionally good at giving head can get a Scorpio guy so hot that he will actually crave to be with her.
If a woman has mastered this technique, it doesn’t matter if she is average looking, she will quickly become a ’10’ in his eyes and he will not let her go.
However, if the way you give head is average or worse, below average, then over time your Scorp guy can start to feel less sexually satisfied and the attraction will start to wane. I know this sounds kinda shallow, but it’s that important.
The surprising truth is that most women think they are good at oral sex, but when surveyed, the majority of men said that most women were pretty average at it or not particularly very good at all. Most men have only had one girlfriend in their life who could ‘blow his socks off’ (pardon the pun) when it came to oral sex.
Jack Hudson is a sex instructor and teaches women how to make their men sexually addicted to them. He explains the secret to giving the best blow job ever in this video.
Scorpio men love mysteries and the best thing you can do for him is to surprise him.
To make your Scorpio man happy in bed, it is important that you keep him on his toes. In other words, you should always make it hard for him to guess what you will do to him next.
The secret is to do things that will keep him intrigued and interested in you even after the sex has ended.
Such surprises can be new sex positions, dirty talk, shared fantasies, dressing up, erotic massages and even introducing toys into your love play.
It is very important to understand that just doing the same things with your Scorpio man will soon bore him as a Scorp craves variety.
So, avoid being predictable at all costs. If he tells you that he particularly likes something that you do then, by all means, bring it back into the mix from time to time. Otherwise, mix it up.
Learning how to talk dirty to your Scorpio guy cannot be overemphasized. Talking dirty will encourage him to share his deepest fantasies with you. When he does this, he will also automatically start picturing you in them in his mind.
When you engage in pillow talk with your lover it also arouses the most erogenous zone in his body; the brain.
Talking dirty will not only help you understand what your Scorpio lover wants, but it will also cause him to fantasize about you, even when you’re not around. When he starts doing this, you will be the only woman he’ll want to be with as you are the one who has sparked his desire process.
As if this wasn’t enough, being able to talk dirty to him makes you appear 10x more sexy in his eyes.
Unfortunately, many women feel too shy to talk dirty to their partners. However, once you get past the initial nervousness, it is actually very empowering once you see the profound effect that it has on him as he looks at you with intense desire, totally fixated on you and hanging on every word.
If you’re a nice girl who wants to express her naughty side then Felicity Keith tells you what you need to know to talk dirty effectively here.
Be adventurous in bed
Scorpio men are adventurous and their desire is to also connect sexually with an adventurous woman. Therefore, while in between the sheets with your Scorpio partner, it is important that you get out of your sexual shell.
In other words, you need to break through shyness and become that sexy woman your Scorpio partner wants you to be.
If you want your Scorpio lover to enjoy the sexual experiences he has with you, then you need to be able to spark his internal processes for desire and sexual attraction.
Pillow talk is an excellent way to do this. Felicity Keith shows you exactly how you can do it with confidence here.
Furthermore, your Scorpio partner will certainly find it thrilling if you suggest watching porn together. You can create the mood to be sexual by wearing sexy lingerie, playing soft music, lighting some candles, incorporating some sex toys, and having flexibility with regard to sexual positions.
Maintain eye contact in bed
The first thing you will notice about a Scorpio man in love is that he tends to engage in a lot of eye contact. Therefore, to be able to decode your Scorp’s body language, it is important that you maintain eye contact during foreplay and intercourse.
Eyes have a way of responding to the emotions. Therefore, paying attention to your Scorp’s eyes will certainly give you a hint of whether he is enjoying the sweet moments with you or not.
Stimulate his erogenous zones
The most common erogenous zone for many people is the genitals. However, Scorpio men find their genitals to be extremely sensitive due to their sexually charged nature.
Therefore, if you want to ignite the passion in your Scorp guy, stroking and caressing his genitals will do the trick to get him started. However, do not forget to be gentle when doing it.
You can ask him for feedback from time to time and ask him if he likes it harder, slower, softer and so forth so you can learn what he really likes.
Let him dominate in the bedroom
Scorpio men are sexually dominating. Therefore, to make your Scorpio guy happy while in between the sheets, it is important that you allow him to make you happy while you take the submissive role.
Your Scorpio boyfriend wants to reciprocate the favor by taking care of your sexual fantasies and desires. So, to make him feel great about his sexual prowess, it is important that you open up and tell him what you would love him to do for you.
Showing him that you are highly enjoying all the things he is doing to you is a great ego massage for him and will also turn him on all the more.
If you make him feel like a hero in bed then he will want to satisfy you all the more.
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Scorpio guys are the most sexual signs of the zodiac. For him, sex and intimacy are not only pleasurable, but it is also a way for him to connect with you in a deep and meaningful way.
Being able to trigger his psychological processes for attraction and love, as sex therapist, Felicity Keith shows here, is one of the quickest, easiest and most effective ways to become the center of his desires.
If you want to keep your Scorpio man interested in you, it is important to take the time to learn what makes him happy in bed and become the woman who can satisfy his sexual needs and desires like no other woman has been able to before.