If you’ve got the hots for a certain Scorpio guy and you want to know how to flirt with him over text then here I will share some powerful tips and methods you can use to make him want you.
Scorpios are known to be quite mysterious and they like to keep their cards close to their chest in the early stages of getting to know someone. This makes a Scorp guy much harder to figure out.
Scorpio men are excited by a woman who presents a little mystery and intrigue. He likes to figure things out and have a puzzle to solve. Because of this, you don’t want to come across as though you’re throwing yourself at his feet.
Using very subtle innuendo mixed with a little sexual ambiguity in your text messages, like these ones, will spark his intrigue and make him curious about you.
This is very powerful because, regardless if he has already thought of you in a sexual way or not, his brain will begin to throw him sexual images of you, which, in turn, trigger those butterfly feelings in his tummy.
It’s kinda like the brain “trying it on for size” to see if it likes it. It’s just how the brain works. The bottom line is, he will start to think of you in a sexual way.
This all happens in the brain quickly and subconsciously without them being aware of the psychological process I just explained above. Often it results in the person then drawing the conclusion that they are attracted to you.
While texting a guy is fun, the problem is it is all too easy to send the wrong message without realizing what you’ve done and end up putting him off.
Guys think differently when it comes to dating and relationships, after all.
Fortunately, relationship expert, Amy North shows women exactly how to avoid these pitfalls, but instead, stimulate feelings of attraction in him through texting, as she explains here.
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How to Flirt With a Scorpio Guy With Your Text Messages
Initiate the contact
If you want to flirt with a Scorpio guy over text, do not wait for him to initiate the flirting game as Scorpio’s will rarely text you first.
Pick up your phone and text him to get the ball rolling. Keep it short, sweet and playful. If you can add a little mystery to your text then all the better.
However, as you do this, bear in mind that the Scorpio guy does not like neediness or desperation. It is important to avoid acting in this way if you want to be attractive to him.
Sending him one of Amy North’s Seduction Texts is a great way to start flirting with him.
Keep him guessing about your personal life
When a Scorpio guy likes you, he is likely to text you to try to find out more about you.
In order to confirm if you are interested in him and if he has a chance with you, he is likely to want to find if you’re in a relationship or if you’re “on the market”.
It is important to bear in mind that Scorpio guy’s like to have a mystery that they can figure out. Therefore, it can work well with a Scorpio man if you text him ambiguously about the things he wants to know.
The trick is to keep some mystery about yourself without being too vague and elusive Give him a little of what he wants to know so he can see you’re game, but keep other things back in reserve for him to figure out or discover later.
Doing this makes him feel that you are an interesting and intriguing person with depth to your character.
Scorps also love to surround themselves with an air of mystery so it is likely that he will be vague with you and try to keep you guessing too. Just play with it and have fun!
Text him hot pictures
Scorpio men are known to be highly visual and very sexual. Therefore, in order to capture his interest, you can send him your hot and flirtatious pictures.
Ensure that you keep his blood boiling by showing him just enough skin, but not too much that doesn’t leave anything to the imagination. Don’t give it all away in a text.
If you text him an eye-catching image of yourself, you can be sure it will make him hot under the collar for you and get his mind wandering all day long!
Related Article: 4 keys to flirting with a Scorpio man
Use sexual innuendo
Sending flirty texts to a guy is fun and can help to increase his level of attraction for you if you do it right.
However, if you want him to start to think of you in a sexual way or to even begin to visualize the two of you getting hot and steamy together then use a little subtle sexual innuendo to sew the seed.
This is a great way to seduce your Scorpio man through texting and can quickly escalate the relationship to the next level.
Send “short and sweet” text messages
A Scorpio guy tends to keep his texts very precise and to the point. Therefore, when flirting with him be sure to keep your texts short. If your texts are too long then he may get bored or even slightly annoyed. However, if he’s already started sending long texts then it’s fine to reciprocate in kind. Just don’t do it all the time.
When it comes to short and sweet texts, ask him the occasional question that is designed to get to know who he is. This gives him the opportunity to answer in just a sentence or two.
Even though he likes to remain mysterious, he will appreciate you are interested to get to know him, which he will find attractive.
If you want to send him tried and tested text messages written by a relationship expert then send him one of these texts written by Amy North.
Scorpio men, like most people, love to receive compliments. So you can appeal to his ego by sending him a compliment or two about his looks, abilities or any of his character traits that you find particularly appealing.
While all compliments are nice, the implied compliment works best with a Scorpio guy.
The implied compliment is basically when you give someone a compliment indirectly. For example, after an evening out, instead of sending a text like this;
“I like your class and style”, which would be a direct way to say it, wording your text like this has more impact;
“It’s so nice to spend time with someone who has class and style…”
When it comes to compliments, just don’t over-do it with a Scorpio or he may start to perceive you as insincere.
Ask for his help
If a Scorpio man likes you then he’ll naturally relish an opportunity to impress you and even help you out if you need it.
So, to flirt with a Scorpio man over text, you can ask for his help or opinion on something you know he is able to help with.
See my article here for more signs he is into you.
See also: The Scorpio moon man in love
Pick the right time
Before a Scorpio guy texts you, he’ll likely consider the time he is texting you. He will want to ensure that he is not interfering with your schedule because he also does not like ti when other people interfere with his.
So, before you flirt with a Scorpio man with text messages, be sure to time your texts well. Choosing a time perhaps in the evening when he is relaxing will give him the space to enjoy responding to you and he will then be more likely to flirt with you a little.
Use the emoticons with caution
As I said earlier in this article, a Scorp loves a good mystery. Therefore, you can be a little ambiguous with your text messages by not over-using the smileys and emoji’s.
The idea is to keep him guessing what your words might mean and to build up some tension and mystery for your Scorpio guy.
Ensure that you use cues that involve your intentions while ensuring you are not revealing everything all at once.
When flirting with a male Scorp, the idea is to keep your text messages short, fun, playfully teasing and tantalizing. Ensure that you give him the occasional compliment and tell him a few things that he will love to hear.
Use your language in a sexually ambiguous way to get him wondering if you really meant the innuendo in your message or if it was “merely innocent”. This is a fun game that keeps a Scorpio’s mind guessing and his pulse racing for you.
While text flirting is a lot of fun, it can also be risky. It’s very common for people to misinterpret a text message and ruin a budding connection, especially if you don’t know them very well. That’s why relationship expert, Amy North created her subliminal text message system, which shows women how to avoid the common mistakes they make with texting, but instead, psychologically trigger the attraction process in a man’s mind. You can find out more about Amy’s methods here.