Scorpio men are known to be very trustworthy, hardworking, charming, loyal, intelligent, and great in between the sheets. However, despite the fact that they possess such great personality traits, they can sometimes tend to have anger issues. In other words, they are known to have very intensified emotions, including their anger, and they rarely give their apologies verbally unless they have learned how to do so.
So, if you are dating a Scorpio man, you will likely agree with me that his anger can be very fiery. What’s more, it is important to note that your Scorpio guy is likely to isolate himself or stop talking when offended or after he’s had a fight with his lover. This can make it very difficult for their partner to know what to do in this situation.
If you’ve recently had an argument with a Scorpio and he’s still holding a lot of anger for you then the best way to patch things up with him is to learn exactly how a Scorpio man thinks and feels so you can get him to open up and communicate with you in a rational way. Astrologer, Anna Kovach teaches everything about the Scorpio male psyche in her book, Scorpio Man Secrets. I reviewed her book here for my readers.
That being said, this article will help you gain insights into some strategies you can use to deal with your Scorpio partner after a fight.
5 Tips for Coping with an Angry Scorpio Man After a Fight
Give him space
One of the most important things you need to do after having a fight with your Scorpio guy is to allow him to be alone. Giving your Scorpio partner some space allows him to calm down and to think things over more clearly.
It is important to note that it is very easy for your Scorpio boyfriend to get carried away during an argument, which might make him fail to comprehend the horrible things he might have said during that time. So, letting him be alone enables him to take notice of his mistakes, and less on your mistakes.
In addition, it is important that both of you give each other space as a couple so that you are able to reflect on the fight and the way you both reacted. Addressing your challenges when both of you are calm and collected enables you and your Scorpio partner to not only listen to each other but also understand one another.
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After a fight, it is imperative that you say sorry to your Scorpio boyfriend if you are the one who was at fault. What’s more, try as much as possible to apologize to him face to face. Nonetheless, you can also apologize via a phone call, email, or text message, but apologizing in person would be more effective.
In addition, it is important that you make your apology very plain and simple because making it too wordy will make it appear artificial. In other words, you need to be really truthful when apologizing to your Scorpio guy because he will certainly be able to sense deceptiveness. If you want your apology to be effective, it is important that you avoid making excuses for your mistakes.
Once you apologize, it is important that you give him time to ponder on whether he should forgive you or not because Scorpio men are known to hold grudges for quite some time.
Do not chase after him
If your Scorpio guy decides to leave the scene of the argument, it is important that you avoid running after him because such a move is likely to make matters worse. Giving him time to cool down and think things through is very important because he will not hear you out while he is still furious. What’s more, he is likely to use what you tell him against you and to push you away. So, if he decides that he wants to leave, let him be. In other words, it is important that you exercise patience until your Scorpio partner cools down. He will certainly come back to you after he has cooled down.
If you’re finding it rustrating to understand your Scorpio guy and you just want ot get things back on track with him as quickly as possible, then you may be interested to read astrologer, Anna Kovach’s new book, Scorpio Man Secrets. In her book she explains exactly how the Scorpio man thinks, why he acts the way he does and how you can quickly and easily read him like an open book. If you want to know more then you can read my review on Scorpio Man Secrets here.
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One of the things that your Scorpio guy will do when hurt and angry is to use his anger as a reason to defend or isolate himself. What’s more, he is likely to use his anger as a defence mechanism when he feels threatened or insecure. So, it is important that you try as much as possible to create an environment where he feels emotionally secure. This is likely to diffuse the anger of your Scorpio man, and you can only be able to achieve this through a lot of patience and compassion.
What’s more, you also need to show him compassion by saying kind things to him and avoiding criticism because Scorpio men never take criticism lightly. You can also communicate compassion by listening attentively to your Scorpio guy and being honest. Avoid being sarcastic or mocking your Scorpio guy because it might escalate his resentment.
Do not try to change or control him
The worst thing you could do after a fight with a Scorpio guy is to try and control his anger. It is important that you don’t focus on changing your Scorpio boyfriend because he will not respond well to your efforts. What’s more, you’re likely to escalate his anger because Scorpio men do not like been controlled. He likes being in control. So, the best you could do during this difficult misunderstanding is to control your reactions.
Fights and misunderstandings are common in any healthy relationship. What’s more, Scorpio men are known to hold grudges for a longer time than any other Zodiac sign. Therefore, it is imperative that you act carefully whenever you have a misunderstanding with your Scorpio boyfriend. It is also important to note that it might take a while before he fully recovers, and so you need to be really patient and compassionate with him.