If you’ve got the hots for a shy Scorpio guy but you’re worried he might never ask you out, then this article is for you. While some Scorpio’s can be very confident and outgoing, it is important to note that other Scorpio men can tend to be shy when they are around a woman they like.
This is not necessarily a bad thing, however, it can make him much more difficult to read and figure out if he really likes you too. If you need a step-by-step guide on how to read a Scorpio man and make him attracted to you, see my article here.
The first thing you need to do is to get his attention. However, this can be tricky if he is a bit coy. If you’re a very attractive woman or even if you don’t consider yourself particularly attractive but he is attracted to you then he will likely be shyer around you.
What’s more, the process of getting the attention of a shy Scorpio fella often starts with knowing what a Scorpio man finds particularly attractive in a woman, and what turns him off.
Seven Ways of Attracting a Shy Scorpio Man
When trying to win the attention of a Shy Scorpio guy, it is important to keep in mind that he is just like any other Scorp fella and they can tend to be a little shy sometimes. However, once you get past this exterior and get him to open up he is known to be the best lover in the zodiac.
Knowing about the unique qualities that attract a Scorpio man as well as understanding the struggles that some men have that cause them to be shy around women will help you to attract him to you and make him yours.
With that in mind, here’s how to win the attention of a Shy Scorpio guy.
Be open and friendly
For shy guys, women who come across as intimidating, closed, cold, unfriendly, unapproachable or just simply out of their league will definitely cause a shy guy to retreat into his shell.
Take a quick look at how you present yourself. If you think you may be coming across in any of the above ways then reverse that trait when you’re around him to help him feel at ease with you. Once he feels comfortable with you it will be so much easier to get him to open up so you can form a connection with him.
If, however, you’re all good in this area and you already come across to people as warm, friendly, bubbly and approachable then you’re halfway there. The next step is to give him subtle signals that let him know you are available and that he has a chance with you.
Giving a compliment to a Shy Scorp is a great icebreaker. What’s more, Scorpio men love receiving compliments about their appearance more so because they tend do tend to care about how they present themselves to others.
So, even if you have not talked to your Scorpio crush before, praising him for something you like about him is a good way of starting a conversation, or even making him notice you.
However, the compliment has to be unique and 100 per cent genuine because Scorpio men detest lies. Remember a first impression really counts and you do not want to say something that will turn him off.
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Take it slow
Depending on the response you get from him, it is important to note that Scorpio men do not like to be rushed or manipulated.
It is also important to have in mind that shy guys can at times feel inhibited and anxious around women. While not all Scorpio men are shy, it can certainly be something that he struggles with.
If he is especially shy then it may be difficult for him to start a conversation with you. However, once he feels how warm, friendly and open you are he, you should have no trouble drawing him out. It will help you to work on befriending him and let him warm up to you slowly.
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Feeling confident in your own skin is paramount when dealing with any Scorpio guy, shy or not. So, as you try to lure him, it is important that you avoid pretending that you are also shy, for instance as this could cause awkwardness.
In addition, Scorpio men are very intuitive and the shy guy will be able to see through you. Pretending to be a person you are not just to win his attention will certainly ruin your chances with him.
So, if you are an extrovert, do not pretend to be shy or introverted so that you can make the Scorpio male you are eyeing believe that you are like him.
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Do not criticize him
Scorpio men are open to feedback, but not criticism. Therefore, if you want to keep his interest, avoid pointing out any behavior you do not like such as his timidness.
Judging him and asking him to change his behaviors will definitely make him shut you out. If you really want him to share his real feelings with you, you need to make him feel safe around you so that trust can develop.
Stimulate his mind
A Scorpio guy, extroverted or introverted, wants to date an intelligent woman who can also stimulate his mind. So, if you are looking to impress him, engage him in a discussion on topics he finds intriguing and has a sense of mystery to them.
Sharing your interests with him is also a plus, but try to avoid asking him too many questions about himself too early on because a shy Scorpio guy may not feel comfortable exposing too much of himself right away.
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Don’t make him jealous
Scorps can be jealous, but they never really show it. So, with that in mind, don’t use the jealousy tactic to try to get his attention as this will only put him off.
In other words, playing games with the Shy Scorpio male to try to get his interest is a tactic you should avoid.
Attracting a shy Scorp is all about understanding his nature, being warm and friendly so he does not find you intimidating and being honest in how you communicate with him.
If you need more help attracting a shy Scorpio guy then you may want to read renowned astrologer, Anna Kovach’s book that tells you everything you need to know to attract a Scorpio man. I reviewed her book here for my readers.