Texting has become a common way of relationship communication more so due to the increased popularity of apps like WhatsApp, Facebook messenger and of course the standard SMS.
Interestingly, text messaging has become an asset that can be used to build attraction without even meeting up or speaking on the phone. In fact, text messages provide a unique ability to create curiosity, intrigue and fascination in a person when used correctly.
Having said that, if you are head over heels for a Scorpio man, or perhaps you’ve just started seeing one, you can conveniently use text messages to make a huge impact on him.
However, before you start using texts to win his attention, it is imperative that you first understand what turns off Scorpio guys and what makes Scorpio’s pulse race.
Using text messaging can either ignite attraction or completely kill it if you don’t know what you’re doing. So, there are two very important steps in order to make a Scorpio man insatiably attracted to you through text.
Step 1: Discover exactly how a Scorpio man thinks, what he is looking for in a woman, what turns him on and what turns him off. Relationship astrologer, Anna Kovach tells you everything you need to know about the male Scorp mind in her new book. You can read my review here.
Step 2: Learn the psychological triggers in a man’s mind that create attraction and feelings of love and exactly how to trigger them through text messages. Watch this video to see Amy North explaining how a few simple and well-timed text messages can get him to forget every other woman and focus all his love, attention and desire on you and only you. You can watch Amy’s video here.
In the rest of this article, I will share insights on how to effectively use text messages to captivate a Scorp guy.
How to Use Text Messages to Attract a Scorpio Guy
Flirt with him
Scorpio men love flirting. So, sending fun and flirtatious text messages to your Scorpio crush or boyfriend can certainly help to keep things hot between the two of you. In other words, engaging in flirtatious behavior through texts will make your Scorpio man want more.
Flirty texts help to reveal a side of you that will not only grab your Scorpio’s attention, but also make him gravitate towards you due to your sexy, fun, attractive, and adventurous nature.
So, if you want a Scorpio guy to yearn for you, you need to keep driving his desire by making his oxytocin pump through his veins. However, it is important that you keep things fresh by not flirting with your Scorp all the time. If you over-do it you could kill the passion he is feeling for you.
Additionally, it is important to also closely consider the responses you have been receiving from your Scorpio guy and how he has been reacting to your messages. If he begins showing interest in you, back off and let him pursue you.
To learn how to do this effectively so you don’t blow it, but instead, cause him to fantasise and obsess over you then watch Amy North’s video here where she tells you exactly how to do it.
Just like women, men love compliments. So, complimenting a Scorpio guy you like will certainly increase your chances of winning his heart. Though it is not always easy to know the kind of compliments to give when communicating with your Scorpio guy through text, appreciating and praising him through words is necessary. To learn exactly what to say to him to turn him on, read my article here.
In addition, not being able to see your Scorpio guy means you cannot compliment him about his personal appearance. So, the best you can do is to give him compliments that touch on his physique, character, intelligence, posture, energy and sex appeal.
Everyone loves being recognized for their efforts, and the Scorpio man is no exception. Therefore, if you want to ignite an emotional connection, it is important that you text him compliments that indirectly let him know that you’re into him and you think he’s hot.
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Keep the texts precise and error-free
Women are considered to be “wordier” than men more so when it comes to relationships. So, when texting a Scorpio man that you like, it is important that you try as much as possible to keep the text messages short. In other words, do not send him a string of messages because chances are that he will perceive this as you being over-keen and get bored with you.
Furthermore, shorter texts show that you respect his time and will leave him wondering how keen you are on him.
In addition, avoid asking him a lot of questions because they will prolong the text or conversation, which might make him perceive you as someone who is controlling and nosey.
What’s more, long texts are likely to kill your sense of mystery, and it’s very important to keep the imagination of the Scorpio guy high as he loves a mystery and a puzzle to solve.
Therefore, it is important that you take the back seat and allow your Scorp to lead the conversation. What’s more, remember to check your spelling and punctuation before you send your texts as Scorpio guys are turned off by dumb women.
Send him a text that includes your photo
Most phones have an inbuilt camera, which makes it easy to send photos to the Scorpio male. Men are considered to be visual beings, and sending him a text that includes your sexy photo will certainly trigger his enthusiasm for you.
The photos should not reveal too much because the mysterious Scorpio guy will not have a reason to want to know you more. What’s more, it is important to ensure that the photos you send him will make him yearn to see you.
Do not send him nude pictures of yourself if he is yet to show interest in you as this will likely come across as being too desperate, which will likely put him off. If it doesn’t then he probably won’t respect you and will either think you’re only interested in sex or will only want you for one thing.
Give him time to respond
Patience is a virtue when dealing with a Scorpio man. So, when you send him texts, it is important that you give him time to respond. Avoid sending him one text after another before he gives a response to your first and subsequent texts.
Also, consider the frequency of your texts. If you text him too often then you will appear needy, which will turn him off. The kind of woman that appeals to a Scorp is confident, strong and independent.
Besides being a great way to find out more about him using text messages to attract a guy can be a lot of fun. However, if not done correctly, it can also cause you to completely blow your opportunity with him without even realizing it.
As fun as it is to flirt with a guy over text, you also need to consider the timing of your text messages and gather a little info on the kinds of things that will make him wild for you.
Remember to keep your texts short and do not give him a reason to think that he is under pressure to be in a relationship with you because he will run a mile.
If you want to discover the simple little text message that will cause you to be the only woman on his mind then watch Amy North’s video here.