Scorpio men have a tendency to be private, which means they can often seem distant and aloof, even towards their partner from time to time.
While most of the time he will likely be affectionate with you, there will be times when it feels like he has withdrawn. When this happens it is natural to worry if he really loves you.
Often, he just needs some space, but of course, there can also be more that’s going on beneath the surface.
If you’re dating a Scorpio, it’s important to remember that Scorpio men have their own ways to show love and affection in a relationship, which may be very different from your own.
If he is sometimes distant, this doesn’t necessarily mean he doesn’t love you anymore as a Scorpio man does need some quiet time to himself now and then.
If, however, this is becoming increasingly more common or you really do feel that he’s falling out of love with you then there is a method I came across recently, which may help.
Relationship expert, Amy North teaches women a psychological trick to trigger what she calls, his “devotion sequence” in his mind. When this process is triggered it causes him to feel a flood of emotions more powerful than love.
According to Amy, when he is in this state he will want to be with you, commit to you and never let you go.
I thought this sounded a little far-fetched when I first heard it. However, Amy is a well-known and well-respected relationship expert with an excellent track record so I thought it was worth checking out. You can find out about her method here.
With that being said, here are some of the most common ways your Scorpio man will show love if he is still into you.
Ways A Scorpio Man Will Show Love
Opening up is a sign of trust
Scorpio men don’t like to share their feelings. It may take time before a Scorpio is willing to open up and talk to you about their emotions. However, if a Scorpio man is willing to reveal his feelings to you, that’s an excellent sign. Scorpios can be slow to trust others. If a Scorpio trusts you, that means he thinks you’re special.
The next time you’re with your Scorpio, you should ask him about his day. Pay close attention to how he answers your questions. If he’s willing to give you detailed answers, it’s safe to assume that he really values your relationship.
See also: Is he really in love with you?
Scorpio men can be stingy with compliments
If you’re used to being showered with compliments, you may be disappointed by your early interactions with Scorpios. Scorpios are very honest, and they don’t like to give out compliments that feel insincere.
While your Scorpio may not compliment you all the time, the compliments that he does give you with be thoughtful and heartfelt. When a Scorpio compliments you on your beautiful smile or your strong work ethic, you’ll know that he’s not just trying to make you feel better. He’ll mean every last word that he says.
Scorpio men don’t like public displays of affection
If you try to kiss a Scorpio in public, he might pull away from you. However, you shouldn’t take this as a sign that he’s not interested. As mentioned above, Scorpio men are private. They don’t like showing their love publicly. If you’re concerned about his true feelings then you can find out about the signs that a Scorpio man is not interested here.
A Scorpio may not want to show you affection when the two of you are in public, but he should be more than willing to show you affection when you are in private. Scorpio men are passionate and energetic lovers. When you’re alone with your Scorpio, you’ll get to see a side of him that no one else will ever get to see. Trust me, it will be worth waiting for!
It will be easier for you to have a healthy relationship with a Scorpio if you understand how Scorpio men show affection. Take the time to learn more about Scorpio men and how they operate. Scorpios have their own way of showing love and affection. Scorpio men don’t fall in love easily, but when they do fall for someone, they fall hard.
Related article: How to get him to fall in love
Do Scorpio’s fall in love easily?
Scorpio’s are very much in touch with their feelings and can sometimes feel overwhelmed by emotion. He is a bold and passionate lover who likes to maintain an air of mystery.
When he does fall in love he will usually fall hard and become immersed in his feelings for you. However, he will also demand the same depth of love from you in return. This is everything to him and if he feels his love is returned then he will commit whole-heartedly to you.
When he falls this deeply for you, you need to prepare yourself for passionately profound love-making and deep, meaningful conversations.
Do Scorpio’s hide their feelings?
This enigmatic water sign is the most mysterious character of the zodiac. He likes to maintain his privacy and wants to play his cards close to his chest. He will often hide his true feelings until and unless he feels totally comfortable with you and trusts you completely.
Control is very much a Scorpio train. However, this does not mean he wants to control his lover, but rather, he always wants to remain in control of his thoughts, feelings, and emotions. Losing control would be a living nightmare for him if it were to happen.
The Scorpio and sex
Everyone knows that Scorpio is the most sexual sign in the zodiac. This is because of the unique combination of having fiery Mars and dark, mysterious Pluto as joint rulers. As such, Scorpio men use sex as a way of deeply connecting and communicating with their partners. They are not necessarily sex-mad like many people think, although they do certainly think about it a lot.
Rather, Scorpio’s are so in tune with their deep emotions, his abundant sexual energy that they use it as a way to connect with their partner and express themselves.
If you would like to know more about the sexual side of the Scorpio male, then see our article here on what Scorpio men are like in bed. If you want to discover the secrets to pleasing and satisfying a Scorpio in bed then see here for Scorpio Sextrology.