Knowing if a Scorpio man is interested in you is not as easy as you might think. Scorpio’s are very private people and are usually guarded with their feelings and emotions. Like the Scorpion with its armored shell, Scorpio’s also wear a protective layer of armor to shield their deep emotions and sensitive nature.
The sheer depth of emotions that a Scorpio is able to experience along with their heightened intuition and sensitive nature is certainly a gift. However, many Scorpio’s can wrongly perceive these traits as a weakness until/unless they discover themselves on a deeper level. Therefore, it can often be a Scorpio tendency not to show this side of themselves to anyone they do not fully trust, which is the vast majority of people. This, in particular, makes it especially hard to tell if the Scorpio man really digs you or is just not interested.
There are some sure signs that pretty much say he’s not interested. However, it is important to be aware that seeing any one or even two of the following signs will not necessarily mean he is not interested as there may be other things going on in his life that you are just not aware of that are making him act that way. Seeing multiple signs over time, however, can mean that he’s just not into you.
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How To Know If A Scorpio Man Is NOT Interested In You
He’s extra elusive
With their mysterious nature, Scorpio’s can sometimes be elusive. However, if he seems more distant and absent than usual from your presence then he may be avoiding you.
When you do see him, ask him unintrusive questions in a casual way, like, asking him how his day was is definitely a better approach than asking him more personal questions about what is going on in his life. If it seems that he is being elusive at the moment, regardless if that is about you or not, he will appreciate people who respect his privacy and don’t probe him too much. You should be absolutely fine though to strike up a casual conversation and ask him non-invasive questions. If he seems to enjoy the conversation and isn’t looking for the exits when he probably enjoys talking to you, which is, of course, a good sign.
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He seems like he’s not really listening
When a Scorpio man really likes a woman he will pay close attention to what she is saying and give her his full attention. He may try to play aloof from time to time, which is his defensive shield coming up in an attempt to hide his true feelings. But if he likes her then he will frequently pay close attention to her time and again.
If however, when you are talking to him he just doesn’t seem interested or has much to add to the conversation then he’s either severely distracted in his head by other things that are going on in his life or he’s just not into you.
He checks his phone while you’re talking
Have you ever had a conversation with someone only for them to pull out their cell phone halfway through and start checking it while you were in mid-sentence? Kinda rude, right? Well if a Scorpio guy, well, any guy does this to you then they either don’t have very good manners, has a cell phone or social media addiction, are waiting for a life or death phone call or they just ain’t interested.
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He doesn’t seem bothered if you see him looking not at his best
Scorpio’s generally do care about their physical appearance, so if he’s really not bothered about you seeing him looking like he’s been sleeping under a hedge (unless this is his usual style) then he’s probably not interested in you.
He doesn’t return your calls, texts or emails quickly, if at all
When you message a Scorpio guy, he may play it cool from time to time and leave it an hour or two before he replies to avoid seeming desperate. However, if he’s consistently leaving it several hours or even days before he gets back to you then he’s not all that interested in communicating with you. If this is the case then he’s either not interested or you’re not being interesting enough for him to reply. If you think it might be the second one, then check out ‘How To Text A Scorpio Guy’. This is a book currently being offered for free by the author, Anna Kovach, for people who buy her new book, Scorpio Man Secrets. I reviewed it here and explained more on how you can get a free copy of the ‘How To Text A Scorpio Guy’ book.
He doesn’t initiate a hug or physical contact when he see’s you
Scorpio’s can often be shy around women they like and will not usually initiate physical contact unless she does first or he knows her very well. However, if he does seem comfortable giving you a friendly hug or playfully touching you on the shoulder then he may just see you as a friend. However, if he does do these gestures but seems slightly awkward or nervous with it then he may have a secret crush on you.
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