If you’re reading this then you’re probably already well aware that the Scorpio is regarded as the most sexual and passionate sign of the zodiac. The general perception is that Scorpio men are obsessed with sex, they just can’t get enough; sex-mad basically. Well, although this may be true on some levels, This doesn’t mean that Scorpio’s will have sex with anyone at the drop of a hat. Quite the opposite actually.
Scorpio’s have a deep and intuitive connection with sex, so much so that they are instinctive masters of the art, which makes them incredible lovers. For Scorpio’s sex is a way of expressing and communicating who they truly are at the deepest level. As such, Scorpio’s don’t want to have sex with just anyone, but rather, they look for partners who they feel will be able to match them on some level in a way that they can create intense sexual experiences of passion, emotion, lust and pleasure and express who they truly are.
In this article, we will expose and lay bare the truths behind Scorpio male sexuality.
What Scorpio Men Like In Bed
The Sexual Experience For The Scorpio
During pretty much every sexual act, Scorpio’s immerse themselves fully and completely and indulge all their senses into every experience. For Scorpio’s, sex is a vehicle in which they are brought strongly and completely into the present moment to the point where the rest of the world disappeares and it is just you and them intertwined in an energetic and passionate sweat fest.
Scorpio men have a deep longing to both be desired by their partner and to also have a woman who can be the total object of his desire, with whom he can indulge his deepest, darkest fantasies. On a subconscious level, this is a way for the Scorpio to connect and gives him the feeling of being understood and accepted on a deep level.
Passion, Lust & Eroticism
Due to his intense, sexual nature, Scorpio men are highly adventurous when it comes to sex and are always looking to push the limits of pleasure and desire. They are highly passionate and sex with them can often be one of the most intense and erotic experiences of a woman’s life.
Scorpio’s are deeply connected and in tune with their intense emotions and as such, they want to have a partner that they can connect with and express these depths with through sex.
Sometimes the Scorpio male will make love passionately, intensely expressing his emotions to his partner through his body movements and energy. Other times, he’ll want to indulge his highly erotic side to both give and receive lustful gratification.
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Scorpio men are certainly down with foreplay. For them, it is a way to both warm them up for the main course and also tease their partner into heights of ecstasy where they can take it no longer. Like any other sexual act, Scorpio males take great pride in being exceptional at what they do. When it comes to foreplay, they certainly aren’t shy and for them, it’s often, the more naughty and erotic the better!
Most Scorpio men intuitively know exactly what to do to pleasure a woman and revel in taking the time to explore their partner’s body and sexuality so they can learn exactly what their partner likes and what gives them the most pleasure. They have extensive and intuitive knowledge of female anatomy and often have a highly developed and honed sense of touch, which they use to both give pleasure to their partner and to receive information from their lover as they take note of every movement and response to the touches they give. Scorpio men also have a dynamic, erotic and somewhat kinky imagination, which they also use to their advantage.
The Scorpio male will store all this in the memory banks and build up a detailed sexual profile of his lover. This trait may come from a deep need from the Scorpio to feel loved, wanted and desired. They also greatly enjoy the ego boost of knowing that he is the best his partner has ever had.
Another reason for wanting to bring his partner to such heights of pleasure is so he can also ride the waves of passion to heighten his own states of intense excitement and pleasure. Scorpio men also love the idea that women find them sexually attractive and fantasise about him behind closed doors.
Note: if you’re dating a Scorpio man then telling him that you have fantasized about him sexually will likely be a big turn-on for him.
The Sexual Act
For Scorp guys, sex is often energetic, passionate, intense and often erotic. These guys seem to have an insatiable appetite for carnal play, which they try to satisfy when they can.
Even though the Scorpio traits are distinctive, there will be some differences between different Scorpio men. Some will be more passionate and sensitive in their love-making, while others will be intense and energetic. However, with any Scorpio guy, there will be an immersion of his senses into each and every experience, an enjoyment of teasing his partner to push them closer to the edge, and a profound connection that needs to be felt to be believed.
Often, the Scorpio male will like to be in control and dominate his partner. This can be due to his controlling nature, however, he is not controlling in the way that he wants to assert his will over his partner, no. But rather, controlling in a way that he wants to master his ability to give and receive pleasure with his lover.
All this being said, he will also be willing to mix it up and allow his partner to dominate him once in a while if he fully trusts her, due to his adventurous side and curious nature.
Their highly energetic nature means that they are often still going after their partner has climaxed. For the younger Scorpio’s who have not yet learned such control, they often have sexual energy in abundance and are often able to go again and again during the same night.
Desire, passion and eroticism are extremely appealing to him. This coupled with his adventurous spirit means that he is also more than partial to experimentation and will also like to try new positions, places to have sex and also use toys for both his partners and his own pleasure.
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Scorpio Men’s Turn On’s
There are quite a few things that turn on the Scorpio man. Some of the biggest include;
- Having a sense of mystery about you
- Letting him know you are interested in him
- Having a unique and different style from most other women
- Being open and honest
- Having a passion for life
- Adventurous and exciting sex
Scorpio Men’s Turn Off’s
Scorpio guy’s also have some key turn off’s that you should also be aware of if you’re wanting to date one. Some of the biggest are;
- Being manipulating
- Being controlling
- A stagnant relationship
- Being possessive of him
- Being too introverted
- Losing interest in sex or acting too prudery
Scorpio men are intensely passionate and make fantastic lovers. They know how to distinguish between feelings of love and the simple act of sex, so if it is just a casual encounter you will have to pull something really special out of the bag in order to change the encounter into a long-term affair.
Understanding the Scorpio nature and exactly how he perceives sex will greatly enhance your passionate encounters with him. It is also important to understand his turn on’s and turn off’s if you’re wanting to make a lasting impression on him and make him yours.
For many women, all this may seem rather intimidating. If you’re not wanting to embarrass yourself in front of him while you’re being intimate and don’t want to run the risk of him thinking you’re boring in bed or just not able to live up to his standard of love-making then you may want to read Scorpio Man Sextrology. This is a detailed book of exactly what a woman needs to know to be the kind of woman that he will find exceptionally attractive and be able to turn him on like crazy. You can discover more about Scorpio Man Sextrology here.