As we all know, the zodiac sign of a man tells us a lot about his personality and his compatibility with future lovers. For this reason, understanding a man’s sign is often the key to understanding how we can make him love us. Of all men, Scorpio’s are some of the hardest to catch, making it even more important to understand what they are really after.
One key to getting a Scorpio guy to chase after you is to first understand the characteristics of your crush. To get this understanding, see our article on the Scorpio personality characteristics here or discover the little known secrets to the Scorpio male psyche that makes him crave and desire you explained by top astrologer, Anna Kovach, here.
Scorpio’s aside, according to relationship expert, Mirabelle Summers, all men respond to what she calls “emotional triggers”. If a woman knows how to subtly slip these emotional triggers into a conversation with him then she’s able to directly target the emotional center in a man’s brain that causes him to feel infatuation and love. Mirabelle has an insightful video on this technique, here.
So, without further ado, here are out top tips for getting a Scorpio guy to chase after you.
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Keys To Getting Him To Chase After You
Make Him Obsessed With You
Due to the nature of Scorpio being ruled by Mars, the planet of desire, abundant energy and action and also the planet of Pluto, the God of the underworld responsible for transformation, emotion and deep intuition, Scorpio men can be highly influenced if their emotional triggers are activated by a woman.
Mars rules our sexual desires, which is why the Scorpio is a particularly sexy and sexual sign. Therefore, a Scorpio will obsessively set his sights on anything he strongly desires (even a woman) and do everything he can to pursue and chase down his goal. However, due to joint ruler Pluto, he may not pursue an action or a decision unless he feels it is the right thing for him and he also has an intuitive feeling that destiny is involved. However, if these two come together in perfect unison then it is like dynamite and the Scorpio will stop at noting to make the object of his desire his own.
Fortunately, relationship expert Mirabelle Summers, has developed a controversial yet highly effective technique she called “Obsession Triggers”, which directly target the emotional centers in a man’s brain to not only speak to his emotions like his own intuitive voice, but also trigger feelings of obsession and love in him that apparently cause him to feel a burning passion for the woman who has touched him in such a profound and emotional way with this technique. We thought this all sounded a bit far-fetched so we’ve shared the link of Mirabelle explaining the technique in this video here so you can judge for yourself.
Here, Mirabelle explains her technique step-by-step
Understand His Life Plan
The first thing to know about Scorpio men is that they are always (or always want to be) in control. This does not mean that they are controlling men regarding wanting to control other people, but rather, they always want to feel a sense of control over themselves and their emotions. For this reason, Scorpio men can often be especially hard to read. These are not men who are going to let others see their emotional side easily until they feel a certain level of trust. They are also not men who will abandon their life plan or make drastic changes to it for a woman as they generally have very precise goals of what they want to achieve in their lives. Instead, they will look for someone who will fit well with their plan and who will support them, pushing them onward to achievement and greater things.
See also: Getting a Scorpio to want you back
Any woman who wants a Scorpio man for a long-term commitment will need to make sure that she has her own life in order and that a relationship with the man she is interested in is going to be helpful to both of them. This is one of the important stepping stones to getting a Scorpio man to fall in love with you, because when he is at that stage of finding a partner to settle down with, he will look for someone who will also be supportive of his goals and needs and not be reliant on him for constant financial or emotional support.
Don’t Play Games With Him
Next, Scorpio men do not like to lose and do not like to waste time. Women who want a man to chase them, but don’t intend to give in or want to play games will not have much luck with a Scorpio. These men do enjoy working for and earning everything in their lives, but they do need to feel like their goal is achievable.
Don’t tease too much, but don’t throw yourself at him either. Instead, allow him to earn your trust while laying out your expectations in a way that will avoid disappointment for everyone involved. To learn exactly how to gain his trust, learn the secrets of Scorpio men here.
See also: Ways Tell If A Scorpio Likes You
Get Him To Trust You
Regarding earning trust, women will need to earn the trust of their Scorpio man as well. He will not easily tell you his secrets and will resent having a large number of questions asked of him at first. Accept the information that he gives you, do not talk to others about him, and show him that you are willing to be part of his world.
When one of these men sees that a woman is ready to work with him, rather than against him, he will often give them an unbreakable trust that serves only to strengthen the relationship.
Scorpio men think of their lives in the long term. Make sure it is clear that you want to settle down, make a life together, and work together as a team. A woman who is just looking to date for a while and not getting serious is not going to have much luck with a Scorpio. This is even more important if you are chasing a more mature Scorpio man. A woman who is grounded and looking for more stability in her life will have the best luck with these men.
If you can get a Scorpio man to fall for you and chase you, their love is deeper than any other you will ever know. Their best trait is their intense loyalty and willingness to do anything for the ones they love. With a Scorpio man at your side, you will succeed at anything you put your mind to.
Due to their charismatic and sexually alluring persona, Scorpio men often have more than one woman chasing them, especially if they are single. If you want to jump ahead of the competition and show him that you’re the one who truly understands him then learn the Scorpio men secrets here.
Trust and honest are very important to the Scorpio so it is critical that you do what you can to show him you are someone he can trust totally and completely. Scorpio’s also look for someone who can be a compliment and not a drain or distraction to their life goals. Show your supportive side and let him also see your independent nature.
Scorpio’s are very driven and don’t like to be messed about so don’t play games with him to try to win his affections or he will quickly get bored and move on. Instead, work toward communication with him on an emotional level to spark a natural and lasting connection with him. Using Mirabelle Summers’ Obsession Triggers can help you to communicate with him on this level and get him to chase you. Learn how to quickly use Mirabelle’s technique here.