Do you have a crush on a Scorpio? If you’ve been trying and failing to get his attention, don’t lose heart, you may just be doing the wrong things to get his attention. Here are our top tips for getting him to notice you so you can start to get to know him and make him yours.
Attracting The Scorpio Man’s Attention – What You Can Do
Flaunt your knowledge
Scorpio’s are smart and highly perceptive, and they tend to be attracted to the kind of women that can keep up with them, so you should never play dumb if you’re trying to win over a Scorpio man. If you want to impress him, the best thing to show off is your intelligence and let him know that you will be able to stimulate his intellect and be an interesting person to connect with.
If you’re an expert on a particular subject, you should show that knowledge off, but do it without bosting. If you read a great scientific article, you should share it with the Scorpio that you’re interested in. When he sees that you’ve got brains and you’re interesting to talk to he’ll want to chat with you more. Once you’ve got his attention, there are five simple ways that work extremely well with a Scorpio guy to keep him hooked on you for as long as you would like. These five sneaky tricks to get him hooked were discovered by astrologer Anna Kovach, and have been explained in her controversial book. See our review of her book here.
Besides having the brains to impress a Scorpio, what you talk about also needs to be of interest to him. Scorpio’s are usually interested in a range of subjects. However, generally speaking, Scorpio men are often interested in three subjects in particular;
- Things that will help to improve their finances
- Metaphysical subjects such as the mysteries of the universe or the inner workings of the mind
If you want to discover exactly what turns on a Scorpio man and how he thinks about sex so you’ll know exactly what to say to him then see our review of Scorpio Man Sextrology here. You may also enjoy reading our article, Scorpio men in bed – the shocking truth.
This is a big generalization as all Scorpio men will, of course, vary in their interests due to their moon and risings signs. However, talking about these subjects with a Scorpio male will usually go down well.
Related article: The kind of woman that attracts a Scorpio man
Wear More Black
Scorpios are ruled by Pluto, a dwarf planet that is far from the sun. Scorpios tend to be drawn to darkness, and they are attracted to dark colors as well.
If you’re trying to dress to impress a Scorpio, you won’t want to wear soft, sweet colors. To grab a Scorpio’s attention, you’ll want to wear dark colors like blacks and greys. Scorpios also tend to be drawn to bright, bold colors like reds.
Scorpios don’t enjoy being in large groups. Many Scorpio men are introverts, and being in a busy and crowded area can put them on edge.
Because of this, it can be difficult for you to catch the eye of a Scorpio when you’re in a busy environment. If you approach a Scorpio in a crowded area, he may be too stressed to focus his attention on you. You’ll get more attention from a Scorpio if you catch him when he’s alone.
See also: 4 things that create attraction in him
People often say that the best way to win people over is to be yourself. While this isn’t always true, it’s definitely the case for Scorpios. As mentioned above, Scorpios are one of the most perceptive star signs. If you try to act like someone you’re not, a Scorpio will see through your act immediately. You should try to put your best foot forward, but you need to make sure you stay true to yourself.
Scorpios have an innate charm that often puts them in the spotlight. If you want to stand out in front of a Scorpio, these tips should certainly help. If you understand Scorpio men and how they work, you’ll be able to catch their attention more easily that you actually thought possible.
If there’s a particular Scorpio that you want to make yours then you should also know that you’re most likely also going to have some competition on your hands as Scorpio males often attract a lot of attention from admiring women. This can be a little daunting for some women. However, with the right knowledge, even the shyest and reserved woman may be able to bag herself a Scorpio. If you feel you need this extra advantage and you want to learn the exact secrets that make a Scorpio man irresistibly attracted to a woman then you may want to read Anna Kovach’s powerful book, Scorpio Man Secrets. There are a lot of books out there on attracting a Scorpio man, some are pretty good and others are absolutely terrible. Anna’s book is one we recommend and so we reviewed it for our readers here.